Could You Remember that for Me?

I know I write about my brother a lot, but there's a reason I do! I really love him and care about him. I worry about him a lot; especially in today's world.

He's such a good guy; one of thee best, if not THEE best. His kind heart, friendly smile, charming ways, and sense of humor often lure in girls...but not always the best girls. That is not his fault whatsoever! He has the biggest heart and he's always trying to help people out. He goes on rescue missions when it comes to girls...a lot. He gets his heart broken trying to help people. But I'm so thankful that he's so real. I just hope he learns soon, because it's hard on all of us!

I'm really protective of him, if you haven't caught on to that yet. So, whenever he brings a girl home to meet us, I am overly critical of them. I've gotten better about it, or I've tried, but it's not easy whatsoever. He deserves the best girl out there, and I know he will find her eventually, which I'm definitely okay with waiting for. I don't really think he needs to be serious anytime soon. (But what do I know?)

There's some pieces of advice I've wanted to share with him for a while but I didn't really know how to until recently. Kabelo and I went to see Ben Rector and afterwards I looked up some of his music I hadn't heard, and I found a song called "Hank." This song was inspired by his nephew, but in this song I heard exactly what I need Sojo to hear from me:

"Go find a girl for whom your love is selfless; someone who makes you helpless to change the way you feel. Stay away from girls who always look so pretty; whose hearts just aren't fitting for the man in you I see. Could you remember that for me?"

So, that's what I want to tell you, Sojo.

Could you remember that for me?